Do You Have the Skills to Manage that Anger?

Are You Able to Manage Your Own Anger?

Is Your Anger or the Anger of Others Affecting Your Personal Life or Work Environment?

In our Ten (10) Week e-Course on De-escalation Skills You Will Learn:

A Logical, Psychological, Explanation for Anger

Ways to Manage Your Own Anger and to Defend Yourself from Other People’s Anger

To Recognize When You Need to Manage Your Own Anger and How to Do It

An Eight Step Method for Assessing Your Readiness to Intervene in an Angry situation

A Proactive Plan for Dealing with Angry People

Methods of Discriminating the Early Warning Signs so You Can Intervene Before Person becomes Angry and Loses Control

Five Techniques for Diffusing a Person’s Anger

Have you ever been involved in a situation with an angry person when you felt defeated? Either you escalated to their level of aggression or you allowed yourself to get lambasted and felt battered in the end? There are some easy techniques to work with an angry person to take their level of volatility down to a manageable level so you can intellectually process the problem with them.

Attempting to reason with those who use anger to intimidate, control, get attention, avoid responsibility, or pump themselves up will generally further add to the aggression or at the very least, be ineffective. Your first order of business is to de-escalate the level of anger.

Often in our work environment, we are confronted with angry people, co-workers, those we supervise, customers, supervisors and stakeholders. In the majority of the situations, it is to your benefit to reduce the level of anger in the other person.

Before intervening, do a quick assessment to see if you are in the proper frame of mind for an intervention. This generally means can you view this person as someone who is doing the best he or she can to gethis or her needs met at that point in time? Are you of the mind frame that you will not be reduced to his or her level of anger should you intervene? Can you allow that even if you do everything correctly, people may still maintain their anger because it is what works best for them without feeling as if you failed? If the answer to these questions is yes, then proceed.

 

De-escalation Skills e-Course:
Take the Wind Out of Their Sails!

Ten (10) Week of Professional Advice from a
Licensed Professional and Leadership Coach

Only $107.00

 

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What is an e-Course?

Did you know that Anger is a chosen behavior?

By using Choice Theory you can develop the skills to manage your anger and the anger of others.
Learning how to manage anger is an important skill to have in the workplace, as well as in your personal life.
It may be difficult to imagine that anger is something you can control. You can control you own anger and you can learn to deescalate the anger of others.

You may be wondering why you should learn how to manage other people’s anger. No one has a right to talk to you that way and you should have the right to hang up the phone or walk away. You do have that right but the question is what does that choice do to the angry person. Often they become even more outraged. Learning these methods will give you the ammunition you need to take the proverbial wind out of the angry person’s sails.

Consider the following questions:

• Can you accept the angry person for who he or she is---a person who is simply attempting to get his or her needs met in the best way he or she knows how to at that point in time?

• Can you avoid criticizing and finding fault with the angry person?

• Can you avoid being judgmental?

• Can you keep from trying to control the other person into doing something he or she doesn’t want to do?

• Can you keep yourself removed from the conflict?

• Can you believe that the angry person has the right to make decisions and choices about how he or she meets his or her needs and that the person does have within him or her the ability to make those decisions?

• Can you try to see the situation from the angry person’s point of view and understand what need or needs he or she is trying to satisfy?

• If acting in a professional capacity, can you remember that your job is to place the healing of relationships as a primary concern?

If you are able to quickly answer yes to these questions, then you are in a good space to intervene with the angry person. If you are not sure about your answers or you know that your answer to at least one of the questions is negative, then your involvement may actually escalate instead of deescalate the situation. Our De-escalation Skills e-Course will help you learn how to deescalate the situation.

You don’t like having to be the one to take someone angry outbursts, especially when you aren’t the one who caused the problem and you’re not responsible for its solution. I can definitely understand this sentiment. It certainly isn’t right and definitely isn’t fair to have to clean up other people’s messes. However, when you are the one who is confronted with the angry person, wouldn’t it be nice to have a plan already in place to manage that emotion so you don’t have to get the brunt of it?

I know there are some of you reading this letter who are thinking that you have NO desire to manage your own anger. Anger can be a very useful emotion. It can help us meet our needs in a variety of ways. Why would someone want to give up effective behavior? Just because you learn ways to manage your anger, doesn’t mean you have to use them. If you find yourself in a situation where you want to stay angry, then by all means hold on to your anger. Our De-escalation Skills e-Course will only give you alternatives in case you find yourself in a situation where maybe anger isn’t appropriate or useful.

Take the Wind Out of Their Sails with our
Five De-escalation Techniques:

1. Active Listening

2. Acknowlegement

3. Apologizing

4. Agreeing

5. Inviting Criticism

With our De-escalation Skills e-Course you will Learn in Detail how to Apply these Techniques for an Optimal Outcome.

Here are the Benefits you Can Expect:

	Improved relationships in your personal life and in the workplace
	Improved mental health and a reduction of unnecessary stress
	Improved self-esteem
	Better communication skills
	A sense of calm when managing crisis behaviors Improved self-control
	Increased ability to manage the aggressive behaviors of others
	Better customer and client relations

I’ve Learned Three Very Important Things in
My Work with De-escalation Skills:

1. People can think a lot clearer when they are not engaged in angry behavior.

2. Others generally respond a lot better when a person is calm than when he or she is angry.

3. When people learn effective diffusing skills, they no longer fear verbally aggressive behavior.

Five Reasons to take Action Right NOW:

1. No Risk! Where is the risk at $107.00 for advice from a licensed professional? That is less than $11.00 per lesson! And don't forget our 100%-365-day money-back guarantee! AND YOU RECEIVE IT IMMEDIATELY.. DOWNLOADABLE!

2. Save Time! Once you learn these incredible skills, you can begin to become the leader you know you can be! If you come to the realization that things may not get better by themselves, then you can take control and learn how to manage your anger and the anger of others. Stop waiting for things to get better on their own. How long have you been waiting? How many more years are you willing to just wait?

3. Save Money! This De-escalation Skills e-Course is only $107.00 and is loaded with information on how to improve your relationships with others in your personal life, as well as your work environment. One hour of individual coaching can cost up to $100.00! Purchase this De-escalation Skills e-Course and start improving your life TODAY!

4. Feel Better! Once you start implementing the ideas discussed in the this e-course, you will gain more control over your anger and know how to effectively de-escalate the anger of others.

5. Watch Your Life Improve! You will feel better about yourself and ultimately your life will fall into place according to your plan.

 

So, Take the First Step,
It's Time to Take Control of the Situation

Learn De-escalation Techniques so You can Be at Top Effectiveness
in All Situations

De-escalation Skills e-Course:
Take the Wind Out of Their Sails!

Ten (10) Week of Professional Advice from a
Licensed Professional and Leadership Coach

Only $107.00

 

• This is an instant download. You will receive your first lesson in just seconds from the time of purchase. NO WAITING
• At $107.00, it's totally affordable.
• You have a complete money-back satisfaction guarantee.

 

Still Not Sure?
Check out the Table of Contents for this Amazing e-Course

If after reading this letter you still aren’t convinced, you have more questions or simply want some more information, please email Kim@Coachingforexcellence.biz or phone me at 708-957-6047. I will be happy to talk with you.
 
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